Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Now Versus Back Then


12 years removed from finishing high school, I am finally at a safe distance where I can look back and appreciate how far I've come. But this blog is meant to be a comfortable, triumphant space for sharing you looking  back to a day when you were more unsure, more unaware of yourself, and comparing it to your great progress as an individual. This blog is meant to be an immense source of relief, because maybe you'll be able to relate to some of the shared experiences.

Being a teenager was not easy to say the least, but I am fascinated with people's different experiences back in the day. Maybe you went to a magnet school, Catholic school, a high school for the performing arts, a private prep school, a public school, or an all girls' school.

One of my favorite movies of all time is Never Been Kissed, when a successful journalist Drew Barrymore does an expose of what high school is like and goes undercover as a "student", but has the benefit of being much older and wiser! For 3 years in my late 20s, I was together with a guy who had never, ever been to prom. In a moment of nostalgia and tenderness, as a gift I took him to what I thought could be a recreation of prom

This is a blog for absolutely everyone: to take a moment to dust off the far recesses of your brain to find your memories that you've long since left behind. The most significant, connection, then involves reflecting on how far you've come since then and how MUCH your perspective has changed!

I want to hear from the geeks, former prom queens, drama students, athletes, stoners, loners, and you name it! Even more interesting, perhaps, would be to capture the words of current high school teachers who have an excellent grasp upon how they were back then, and how they are now.

The thing is, though, is that Glee, High School Musical, etc. never really captured the true angst, apathy, or really raw emotions of high school, nor featured a retrospective of those who had long, long long ago graduated. And Saved by the Bell, one of my fluff favorite programs about high school, was a sunshiney yet comedically shallow portrayal of high school. (Apparently, only the cool kids (Zach Morris, Slater, Kelly Kapowski) or total nerds (Screech) existed in that SoCal world at Bayside High. 


Dawson's Creek featured in-depth conversations and relationships among its high schoolers, and was one of my favorite shows back in the day, but shied away from coverage of the experiences within school, Capeside High, itself. The TV show My So Called Life, featuring high school angst, apathy, misdirection, and rebellion, is a relic of the 1990s. And that's why this deeper delving blog into your high school psyche now exists.

(See above, left, my high school crush of Jordan Catalano played by actor Jared Leto: eye candy to look at but definitely NOT much intellectual substance)

Here are some some sets of questions you can chose from (please pick 1 set) that I am looking to have friends, acquaintances, family, and strangers answer:

1.) What was your worst moment in high school? (Perhaps related, but it horrifies me to no end about how brutally mean and exclusive people can be as teenagers)
1a.) How did you handle it then? How would you have handled it now?

2.)  How did you define yourself in high school? (ex: in terms of your activities, what "group" you hung out with, style, etc.)
2a.) Knowing how far you've come now, how do you describe yourself now in comparison to back then? (Ex: Knowledge, emotional maturity, etc.)

3.) What did you dream of doing back in high school?
3a.) How have you fulfilled your aspirations today? (And they could be completely different!)

4.) How did you rebel in high school?
4a.) What do you think of your "rebellion" in a more modern day content, looking back?

"You've come a long way, baby." - Fatboy Slim, 1998

Interested in sharing? Please get in touch with me at: islandgirl.TNL@gmail.com.

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